What I Wish I Knew Before Getting Fired
Getting fired felt like losing my identity. I thought my job title defined me, and when it disappeared, so did my sense of worth. What I didn’t realize back then is that a position is not your purpose; it’s simply sometimes a means to provide for yourself and your family. It can also be a place to build character and witness to others.
Your Job Isn’t Your Identity
When you lose a role, your first instinct might be panic or shame. That’s natural, but the truth is deeper: your identity isn’t tied to a paycheck or position. Who you are and what you bring to the world extends far beyond any job title. You still carry your creativity, discipline, and value: the very things that may help pave the road to your next opportunity.
Control What You Can
You can’t control corporate decisions, but you can control your mindset, response, and next steps. Dwelling on what’s lost only delays your growth. Ask yourself instead: what can I build from this? Every setback carries a seed of strategy for your future.
Emotion Clouds Judgment
Reacting in fear or frustration may feel satisfying in the moment, but it only fogs your ability to move forward. Instead of reacting, respond intentionally. Take time to process your emotions, gain perspective, and plan your next chapter with clarity.
True Fulfillment
Getting fired forced me to see that fulfillment didn’t come from the title I held. Don’t make the same mistakes I made. Make a choice NOW to let go of attaching your idetity to what’s on your paycheck or badge.